Wait me 10 years…
What is your reaction when the one you love ask you to wait him for 10 years? What may happen between 10 years? Are you sure after 10 years I’m still around or you can promise me the feeling is still being the same?
Kim promises Jane that he will marry her after 10 years from now. Kim asks Jane whether she will wait her for 10 years. In this coming 10 years, he will accompany her all the way through. But just without a paper of authorization of being husband and wife.
Last night, Jane come and cries at me. She asks me what she can do. Do her really have to wait him 10 years? Jane told me about her plan… Her plan is to have her own family, a healthy family as her parents. She hopes to get marry after graduate in 5 years time as the latest. She talks to Kim about this matter, but Kim answer was that he does not have financial stability yet to have a happy family. That’s why he hopes Jane may give him time to earn better finance for better future.
I understand what Jane is worry about. Jane is from a happy family. Her parents get married in their 20s and Jane was born when her mom was only 21years old. Therefore, Jane and her parent’s relations are just like friends. Maybe because of the age gaps is not big, they can share many experiences and happiness together just like what we did with friends. I met Jane’s parents; they really look young and talk with us without any gaps like talking to aunty or uncle. They are very friendly, even play those secondary students game with us.
Kim is a caring guy but I wonder why he doesn’t want to marry Jane as said. He rather staying together and live together but not wanted to sign just a paper of authorization. Maybe for a guy it seems like just a paperless meaning, but it did give an important status for a girl.
Jane asks Kim that how if before the 10years he mean, she got pregnant? Will she still need to wait for 10 years? Would he want their children are 10 years old only they will get married? Kim said if so happens… they will then marry. But he may not give her a happy family as promise because of financial is not enough to raise a child yet. But Jane doesn’t want to give birth only when she is 30s…it is not healthy for her baby and dangerous for her too…
Is it everything needs money? Without money we couldn’t live? I wonder how our parents or grandparents survive with 5-10 children. Kim is working and coming from an average family living, he may have fully support from his parents, what else he needs to worry about finance? Jane wanted was just a promise and makes their dreams realize together. They can work and save money from now, before 10 years they can have cars and houses. What to worry about now?
Besides that, Jane’s ex-boyfriend, Boy had also asked her to back to his side. He doesn’t know that Jane already be with Kim. In the sms, Boy told Jane that he will gave her the happy family as Jane always dream for. Boy is a successful business man who cans really afford a family now. He told Jane that he will gave Jane whatever she dreams. He promise to achieve every of Jane’s wants. Jane really touches by all his words. But sad that he was not the one Jane love. What happen with him is already pass. How does Jane need to reply Boy?
For all the readers, what would be your feeling when yours love one asks to wait him/her 10 years? While the one you love before willing to marry you and achieve what you dream for? Have you think of this problem?
