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I have a friend here who encourages me to open a topic for discussion about this long-term and short-term related in making some decision. What kind of decision that we always headache of? Money, studies, families, friendship or relationship?

What I wanted to discuss about is making decision in the love relation. Firstly, what we are long-term’s and short-term’s benefits including here. For example, Ms G has a boy-friend name Mr. A and in the meanwhile she also going on with another guy name Mr. B. When a day came to Ms G that she needs to choose one between Mr. A and Mr. B, what do u all think she will be choosing? Mr. B considers the third party but he is also someone that Ms G likes. But this does not mean that Ms G do not likes Mr. A.

In the process of choosing either one, Ms G was very smart that she had been using this “long-term and short-term” terms in helping her. In the short-term, she had be with Mr. B more than Mr. A, very happy with him ever. Mr. B even did help her in financial while Mr. A doesn’t. Mr. B is working now, he have plenty of time accompany her and even can die for her. In the other hand, long-term would be consider in Mr. A that he is studying and will be graduate and brighter future. Mr. A even is her family’s favorite choice and good-looking guy. While Mr. B is a sick person who may leave her alone any time.

Can we really consider all this effect in making our decision one day? Are this fair to others? Can we estimate what really happen in the future in predict the long-term? Do leave your comment for this blog. Thank you!

Y so many sadness coming to my life one and another?I really cant survive liao la…

I got a call from my dad this evening abot my grandpa had pass away this morning…Huh~I was stunt that time until I ask twice of the news…Just to confirm and make sure what really happen and how it happen…

Though I’m so sad but when I think how my grandpa go..I feel bless..coz he gone peacefully wif lying on his bed aft cleaning himself and on his nice nice outing shirt.1 thing that I really cellude was that he looks just like sleeping as beadtime with his air-cond’s on.Wow..really rest in peace!But d most sad things is that I dun even have a pic taken wif my grandpa…..I miss u!!

Yea,I`ve been back to ipoh to attend his funeral.Somemore many things need to help out and be prepare.I`m worry about my mommy coz she is so sad and she have been helping out since d morning until now she is now staying overnite there…poor mommy!I was thinking to accompany my mommy but my dad want me to help in housework.So tml onli wake early to help there lo…

Grandpa,may god bless u and enjoy ur day at d beautiful heaven….

What am I angry about?Yea,I’m going to tell u all a bit of my story..

Yea,he was calling and sms’ing me almost every day and night.The HE I mean here was my ex.The one we have been together for 5 years.Dam..5 years!!Long period of reation huh?What u all think must be our relation is very good and he so sayang me a lot and he …. but now!!!!

I got a really surpricing that a sms saying that he already fall in love to a girl who is my nearest relatives.What the hell…Though he said he did no action because of wont end up with good result and she is my … but do u think i`ll trust what he said?Though did nothing now but do u guarantee nothing will happen later or so on?

Huh~It makes me dam crazy!The previous blog I was wrong,I said I will forgive what u did that make me sad coz i choose to be.But now,I was so angry and I wont forgive what u did now although u keep on explaing that u have ntg n no feel to others.I dun think he need to explaint so much to me as I already let him go.I`ll find my new life.Thanks for make me truely let go.I wont regret,Really!!!You make me learn a lesson that really make me grow.Thanks,I know how to protect myself now.

Sorry for expressing my anger here…but..I’m okie now because of my friends here.They advise me a lot.Thanks friends~I really appreciate what my fren did for me..Thanks~